I don't think you get the fact that I am trying to help.
I get that, but I doubt very many people get that. It doesn't come across that way at all. It comes across as condescension, like a small person making himself feel big by displaying his superior knowledge, contemptuously dismissing those who don't already know the TMs inside and out.
I fully understand, and fully agree with, the idea of teaching someone to fish, but there's a right way and a wrong way to do it. Yours is the wrong way. If your way were the correct way, there'd be no need for this forum at all. Just post the TMs, tell people to read them, and we're done.
I understand being frustrated with people who want to be spoon fed, who won't do the most basic searches, won't read anything before asking to be led by the hand. I get that.
That doesn't make your approach right, or helpful. In fact, I strongly suspect that you are a large part of the reason that I see comments on other forums about the "jerks over at SS". The reason I suspect that is that when I have seen comments to that effect, it's in the context of people not being helpful, but jsut telling people to read the TMs. Since you are a moderator, you ARE the face of SS to visitors.
Warthog is a good example for you to follow.