I know the question was for the op, but I figured I'd toss in my $.02.
I have ORD'S "quick disconnect" setup for my sway bar. It is a neat system if you want to retain a sway bar, but need to move your axle forward with different springs or zero rate blocks. If you want a disconnect for the trail it works but... It isn't quick disconnect, a better description would be beat it with a hammer disconnect. The setup is stout, and I trust it. Personally I retained my sway bar since I use my truck to go get firewood, and drive on river roads to get to the woods. If my pickup was strictly a wheeling rig I'd pitch the sway bar in the scrap heap. I don't know if a sway bar would get in the way with crossover, I still run a drag link since I have so little lift.
Update...
I asked my buddy who has a M1008 with about 5" of lift and crossover with high steer and hydraulic assist. His answer on a sway bar working was "No".