Good luck. My head started leaking at #3 as well. Some say this can be a weak spot and develop a crack there. You won't be able to see the crack.
I tried changing the lines, putting on new ferrules, polishing carefully to be sure there were no scratches down in there. Nothing worked.
I have a spare head another member was kind enough to send me which I will install in the spring and hope for the best.
Try the above and hopefully your problem will go away. If not probably need to find a new head.
As for removing - #3 is easy to get to. If it is already wet it probably will come off nice and easy. I had no issues loosening the lines. I have had all the lines off and on and even replaced lines with good used and all the ferrules sealed up nice except for #3 at the head. So the system doesn't seem to be overly sensitive to scratches on the ferrules.
I had my head off because it was leaky and I figured it was the O-Rings - which were leaking. Cleaned everything nice and dry. Started truck and ran it afterwards no leaks and felt really good about it. Once the rest of my repairs were ready and I started driving the truck is when #3 started leaking. I bet it leaked all along but with so much diesel around I could not tell from where. Now it is obvious. Head won't leak at idle or even revved up with no load. Mine has to be under load when the fuel charge is really getting slammed in there hard. Then you will get the leaks so don't think you are OK if it is dry at idle or even running at 2000 RPM with no load.