The tach is a handheld unit. You just point the end at the moving object to see how many times per minute the shiny tape you put on it goes past. In this case you'd want something on the crankshaft, as that's the speed you are trying to determine.
However, the added information that you have the 400A generator explains the issues you are having.
The 400a has a smaller pulley, and therefore makes the tach read higher than it would if you had the 200 amp.
The idle on your engine should be about 700. If you are reading 950, then you are about 36% higher than actual.
your 3300 rpm reading at 65mph is actually about 2400 rpms.
The pulley on the generator. In order for the 400 amp generator to put out the power it is supposed to, it spins faster than the 200 amp generator.
I'm not sure the details, but you might want to contact RetiredWarHorses (Steven Kavanaugh) about what pulley and nut you require in order to change your setup. I think what is being said in the other thread is that the over running pulley on the 200 amp generator for trucks after serial number 196900 is the pulley you want, but there is something different about what nut is used to secure it.
As I said, I don't know the details.
You can either contact him here, or through his website which also has a phone number.
He's here on the west coast, so don't forget the time zone change when trying to contact him.