Taurus454,
I feel your pain, sort of......
I'm going through a similar issue here in Fort Worth, only it's not a home owner's association, but the city I'm dealing with. I chose my house in a neighborhood without a home owner's association.
My story started in late September, when I purchased an M923 5-Ton and parked it in my driveway. The truck fit entirely in my driveway and did not hang over the sidewalk. I spoke to every neighbor that lives on my street and NO ONE had an issue with it. Most of my neighbors thought it was cool, and even liked the fact that it looked a little menacing. They thought the look might help to keep burglars and thieves away from our street.
On October 8, I was working on my truck in the driveway when I observed an unknown person stop and take a photo of me and the truck. I didn't think anything of it because it's happened many times. I've had total strangers come up and ask about the truck and ask to take pics of it. The next day a city code enforcement officer showed up and told me there was a complaint filed with the city about the truck. I asked who complained and he said it was an annonymous complaint, but also said it was worded the exact same as another complaint annonymously filed on the same day, against a different person with a military truck in their driveway. The code enforcement officer said there are some people that just drive around and report stuff to the city, even if they don't live in the neighborhood.
I asked what the problem was and let him know I was pretty familiar with the laws, as I am a 13 year veteran of the police force. He said it was a commercial vehicle and I politely explained that it was NOT a commercial vehicle and was never used for commerce. We went around and around for a while and every title he gave me started with the words "commercial vehicle". I showed him my "Former Military Vehicle" registration and explained that it falls under the "Antique Car" series of license plates here in Texas.
He finally said he'd give me until October 30 to move the vehicle before he'd be back. NOW, I'm up for a fight with my city, but I'm getting married next month and will be gone for 20 days. I don't have the time or funds (at the moment) to fight the city, so I placed my truck in a storage lot for the time being.
I WILL bring it back next year and plan on taking it to court when I get approached by the code inspector, and I'm sure I will. I just have to be VERY cautious with how I approach it, being that I don't want to get in trouble at work. Since this is a city code violation, I technically can be issued a citation and even have a warrant for my arrest issued if I don't comply. The good thing about your case is that it is a civil issue, and not a criminal issue.
I didn't mean to hijack your post, but when I read the threads, I shared your pain.
Please keep us posted about the outcome, and I'll send you all the "good vides" I can.
Good Luck
Keith