"flexing will occur at the point of least resistance". Yes and no... What also determines this is where and how the force is applied. This can be an issue with the 3 and 4 point engineered subframes, as they concentrate all the force from the habitat mass into those 3 or 4 points. if not engineered properly those points now become the high stress point and can result in fatigue/failure...
What you say about suspension is correct, if it does not yield, it imparts force to the frame, and softening plus disconnecting can increase its travel. The way you describe sounds like a viable one except it may be missing part of the overall picture, that being overall balance.
"This thing is nose heavier than the Ayotolla" Quick, what movie is that from?
You are going to remove weight from the rear and reduce the suspension spring capacity in the rear to match the weight? How are you planning on removing weight from the front to maintain axle balance? In my experience, nose heavy, or tail heavy vehicles don't perform as well as balanced ones in just about every situation... Are you planning on running the stock single channel CTIS, because your tires may have something to say about a nose heavy config running the same tire pressures front and rear as provided by CTIS...
From what I have gleaned from peoples reports of loaded axle weights, you need to add at least 3K to the bed of a 1078 to approach axle balance. If you remove the bed, its going to take close to 6k to balance axle weight. and when you get back to those weights, the stock rear springs are closer to being back in play... But sway disconnects would still be nice in really rough terrain IMO.
I got a M1079 bare cab and chassis from auction(basically a M1080). Because I wish to maintain axle balance, this is one of the few builds where my only concern IRT weight is that I may not be adding enough. To keep height under control I am making that top 6" frame rail into the habitat floor frame. it will be attached at one end, and captured hydraulic "springs" at the other end to allow the main frame to twist as needed. This saves me at least 6" overall height and gives me a very strong habitat floor to support the all steel rib and skin habitat box...
My finished interior height should be ~6-11", with an overall finished exterior height, including solar and guards, right at 12'. that with a 6" tapering to 3" floor thickness, 3" wall thickness and 3" arching to 4" roof thickness. I think the OE springs will be OK at the ~20K all up weight. havn't figured out how to work disconnects for that large a swaybar yet
A few ways to fry this fish...
My .02