Marcus, What do you mean switched 12v lead from the relay to the new horn, you mean somewhere between pin 87 and the new horn you install the switch that "honks" the horn, correct? also, the wire coming off pin 86 connects to the power wire that used to feed power to the old horn, correct? Thank you.
Nope. Let's go back to the basics.
Every relay needs two things to operate its trigger - 12v and ground. If you have both of them, the relay closes and power flows to whatever device is attached. Of course, we want a switch to control when that happens.
Sometimes we give it a constant 12v supply (like the factory installation instructions show), and switch the ground. That's probably the most common method.
But it works just as well to give it a permanent ground and switch the 12v. Electrically, it's the same thing.
Well, what do you know? You already have a horn that works, right? That means there's an
existing circuit which provides 12v to the horn when you lay on the horn button. In other words, it's switched 12v. It's 12v controlled by a switch. That switch is already there, resting comfortably in your steering wheel.
Your existing horn has a wire running to it which supplies that switched 12v to the horn when you press the horn button. It's probably got a female .250" connector on the end of it, which is perfect for your relay. Press the horn button, and it gets 12v. Let off, and 12v goes away.
We'll use
that to trigger your relay. We'll just unplug it from the old horn, and plug it into pin 86 of your new relay. (Which you have conveniently mounted near your old horn.)
On the other side of the relay (pin 85) we'll just run a wire to ground.
Well, YOU will. I ain't gonna lift a finger!
The only switch that is needed is already there doing its switching thing - your existing horn switch on the steering wheel. Add one relay (out near the new horn), throw in some wire and a fuse, the new horn, and you're done.
Clear as mud?