Thanks guys, but I kinda sorted it... almost a disaster...
Fortunately I took an 1 1/2" socket, finally got RH side off, but split the socket trying to do ANY of LH ones on left side.
They (Richie Bro's minions) almost wouldn't let me pull outer wheels off, on the property, but saw that fenders would have collapsed with out. As I could only get off one wheel and didn't bring enough dunnage, I improvised...

Even though this looks a little suspect, it was well stable and secure. Didn't get harassed on the 5 1/2 hr trip home, nor any odd jesdiculations from passing flatbedders!
1500 Ram didn't complain too much.
Only got 1 click on rear ratchet straps when I checked after first 10 miles.