First, welcome aboard.
Never touched an 831 myself, so I can't be too much help. However, I can tell you the best thing you can do when you get frustrated with these things is to take a break, step back, and then go back to square one. Follow the TM line by line, and don't assume you did everything right. Read the step, do the step, then move to the next. It's absurdly easy to skip through, thinking you've done everything right only to find something easy. In my case I about lost my mind one day simply because I hadn't double checked the big red kill switch on my 802a.
The folks here are great, and they'll get you through this, whatever the issue is.