Something would have to majorly fail for the engine to damage the transmission as all the parts are designed to deal with full engine output.
strange... could be something shorted in the wiring activating solenoids to select a gear ratio AND engaging the lockup clutch. I suspect this would save a code of some sort. Turn on ignition and press both arrows simultaneously to ender diag mode. The display will read D1(memory location 1), followed by 2 sets of numbers like 22 and 14, and will repeat the sequence. A mode indicator light indicates a current fault. Press the mode button to step thru the 5 memory locations and record the numbers and mode light status…
2 things you can try:
1. Chock the front wheels throughly, jack a rear wheel off the ground. Release the park brake and do not apply brakes unless you have to. If it is engaging a gear and lockup, if a wheel cannot spin it will brake the engine to a stop. If it continues to idle and spin a rear wheel well then it is somehow going into gear un commanded. It of course could also be engaging more than one gearset clutch combination, locking the trans internally and when the torque converter lockup pulls in, it brakes the engine to a stop.
2. Have you tried unplugging the transmission harness, or starting the truck with no transmission power applied? to remove all trans power, pull the cover on the VIM module under the pax dash and remove the pair of 10A fuses.
this will leave power to the rest of the truck, but you will not have a neutral start signal from the trans controller, so will have to crank the engine by jumping across the large terminals of the aux start relay down on the drivers frame rail to crank the engine. But with the run solenoid powered by the ignition switch, it should start when cranked…
if it is an electrical issue, the engine should start and idle Just fine with power removed…
this of course could also be a mechanical issue in the valve body allowing pressure to build in hydraulic circuits un commanded, or some blockage downstream on a return circuit causing pressure to backfeed into the hydraulic circuits causing issues. If this is the case, a no trans electrical test run will have the same symptoms…