Not really possible RE the bead lock centering. If you see how the wheels are constructed you will understand.
People have mixed results with balance beads. Works for some people and not for others. What pressure are you running? Try higher or lower pressure.
I have noticed that new tires or tires that have sat tend to take a while to "round out". I drive my truck daily and my original 2008 tires had flat spots but after about 6 months of daily driving they rounded out and were smooth. Then one blew out so I installed brand new tires and at first they were a bit wonky also but are getting better as they break in. During the week they are better than after the truck sits for a three day weekend for example. Try lower pressure like 50 psi to exercise the rubber and also to absorb the harshness of the suspension. Higher pressure makes the tires extra hard but you feel the ground more and it magnifies out of roundness.
There are three entirely different effects at play here and that's where people get tripped up - not considering all angles. The balance is one - at least in principle you have addressed this with the beads. I would assume for the moment this is true. Then you have "roundness" or lack thereof. These tires are large and the truck is heavy. You do that math on how that affects the tires at low temps and overnight at normal highway pressure. Then there's pressure - lower pressure acts like a damper and improves the ride. Higher pressure magnifies roundness issues due to wear (if present), road irregularities, and changes the temperature and therefore the pliability of the rubber. There are many factors and interactions involved and it can take time to iron it all out and hone in on what your combination works best with.
I've also seen tires that were "warped" from being in a tire carrier for a while. Chain marks on the sidewalls and you could watch the tire tread weave back and forth in the rearview mirror as it rotated even though the wheel was straight and true. These tires are finicky like that. Almost make you wonder if we are really that technologically advanced if we can't even make a 4 foot diameter chunk of baked tree sap run in a decent circle without rattling the fillings out of our teeth.
I think I actually mentioned this to you before. You will be running the pressure the tires and wheels and chassis want and the speed they will allow. Not what YOU want. LoL.
The oil leak is concerning - I installed AC on my truck and didn't use any sealant on any of the bolts (no leaks - knock on wood) and the only place I can think of where the bracketry for the compressor is around oil is the timing gear case. Post pics of what you have going on. Oil leaks and timing cases and FMTV's in the same sentence often adds up to cracked castings. Threaded fasteners don't typically leak significant amounts through the threads once tightened unless there's a split lock washer under the head and the oil is around a smooth shank, etc. Copper washer might get it to stop if that's the case. I'm just not seeing how this is still an issue after two tries at sealing it and I didn't use a drop of sealant on any of my bracketry and it's all bone dry unless this is not a sealant issue at all. That would add up to making sense.
As for allowing RTV to "cure" - that might have been true when it first came on the automotive scene in the '80s. Now all the (good) RTV silicone rubber products are "One Minute Return to Service":
And for that matter I've seen RTV that hadn't cured after MONTHS in a really well sealed threaded hole. Pull out the fastener 3 months after installation and the RTV is still wet around the threads. It's going to cure when it hits moisture/humidity. If it's in a sealed hole it's the same as if it's in it's tube on the shelf. But even not completely cured - if it's viscous enough and the fluid it's sealing doesn't attack it or dissolve it - then it won't leak.
Owning an automotive performance and repair shop (where I was the owner, lead tech, and basically every other worn hat for the first 10 years) I have some experience in matters of sealant. Used this exact product on my ECO hub install in fact (first revision without the gaskets) and zero leaks (knock on dead tree carcass again).
Pics might help us. But probably not unless you clean the area and light it well.