Yes, that diode is FRIED. It is a snubber, meant to prevent arcing when the relay breaks contact since this relay is driving a coil which can store energy, releasing it when the circuit breaks.
After looking over it, any 1 amp power diode will work although I would start at 100 volt so any between a 1N4002 to 1N4004 should work. Look up Allied Electronics if you don't have a local source. Talk to your local ham radio experts.
If it again blows, higher current diode in the 1N5401 to 1N5404 would work. These are 3 amp diodes, the 1N4xxx are 1 amp. There is a 50 microhenry choke supplying this relay so I'm pretty certain the 1 amp diodes will work.
Don't delete this picture since I believe the cathode band is still visible. This is IMPORTANT, install the diode wrong and it will burn out.