I did one last attempt to fix the transmission slipping in drive (reverse still works) before a rebuild with a flush and filter change. Jackstands up front, ramps in the rear give enough working room underneath. Cucvfreek came over to help.
I loosened the 13 1/2" pan bolts, dropping the front bolts more to encourage the fluid to begin leaking out from that part of the pan.
I used a $7 plastic "concrete mixing" tub from Harbor Freight
7 Gallon Mixing Tub to catch the transmission fluid (visible under the truck in the photo), and it got almost all of it. I had plastic sheet under that, so the driveway was kept clean.
The old cork gasket pealed right off, with no residue. There were no "chunks" in the pan, just some "mud" attached to the magnet, and some goo to scrape off the bottom. The fluid was fairly clear pink; darker than new, but not scary. No bad odor to the fluid, but not exactly like new smell.
While the pan was off, I drilled a 1/2" hole and added a retrofit transmission drain plug from Kragen/O'Reilly Auto Parts. If today's rescue attempt failed, I'd be draining this again to pull the trans.
The new gasket/filter set was only ten bucks, also from Kragen/O'Reilly. The gasket being thick rubber (not cork), and holds all the bolts nicely in place for reassembly. No RTV was used. I did wipe down the mating surfaces of both the pan and under the transmission with a carburetor-cleaner soaked rag to degrease.
Then pan went back up easily. The flush was next. I had over 3 gallons of cheap Kragen/O'Reilly Dexron fluid on hand, and a long skinny funnel to fill the dip-stick tube. The idea is to disconnect the transmission cooler return line, add fluid with the engine running and watch for the fluid to change from a dark color to clean pink. This is the only way to replace the fluid that is otherwise trapped in the torque converter.
I unbolted the transmission fluid return line from the driver's side of the radiator, and let it just hang. I then screwed in a piece of old fuel line with the same type of threaded coupling as the transmission line, and attached a length of hose with a band clamp (photo). To find out which is the fluid return line, simply follow the two lines from the transmission - the one on top is the return line. I then added a length of clear tubing to this so I could watch the color of the fluid as it pumped out (and into a 5 gallon bucket).
It helps to have two people to do this - Start the engine, continuously pour Dexron into the dipstick tube, and watch the fluid pumping into the bucket to change from dark to light pink. Stop the engine, replace the return line, then start the engine and fill the transmission with the correct level of fluid.
After doing all this, I worked the transmission through reverse and drive repeatedly, and let it warm up. Got the truck off the jackstands and ramps, and put it in drive. Nothing. Just barley rolls. Revving the engine doesn't help. Reverse is better than ever, though, and I actually did a two wheel burnout while backing up!
If anyone has any ideas for why I have reverse working great, but no drive, I am all ears. My plan is to drop the transmission next Thursday, and rebuild it over the next few days in my garage.
Finally, I have to say thank you to Cucvfreek, who came right over to help with all of this, and will help me pull the transmission. I met him right here on this forum, and he's been a huge help.