Well my luck is holding.
After yet another burned up.
I stopped by the parts store and picked up a ford type solenoid.
Went out today and wired it up (same as above) and ...................... nothing
Tested everything:
24 volt power - check
12 volt signal from ignition switch - check
Ground - check
Power wire out to starter still intact - Check
Try another solenoid - still nothing
Swap wires to every possible combination - still nothing
Dig in box for directions. looks as it should - still nothing
So i ran two extra wires up thru the radio hole (power in and power out) tied them off. Marked the hot and put a wire nut on it.
put it back together.
Pull the cap; spark the wires and ..............
Varoom, clatter clatter, belching
smoke; ready to go.
I got it working.............................................
Just not the finished product i had invisioned.